This is the story of every boy or girl. Search for the right person, the “solid one” to spend the rest of the life happily ever after. Since childhood with all the fairytale stories we tend to believe the happily ever after really do happen and we all work to achieve that storyline. Everyone tries to find the soul mate and to get married in a fairytale over the top wedding and have babies that look like chubby cupcakes. Think not people that are not how it works in reality. This whole concept is totally wrong; people should not live under this perception. Love is a strong word, a strong feel that could blind your good instincts causing you a lot of heartbreak some times. It is a feeling that could be felt over and over again, if you find someone you like who meets your demands who is sometimes might be your total opposite or same characters it could happen. There no boundaries for it, only society and people set limits to it. You can love someone for years and come to find one day you do not feel the same anymore. End of story, marriages that were built on what they thought was solid foundation falls apart. And the search for the true love begins all over again. Either for a single person or a single mom or dad, people doesn’t know single people. They are the strangers in the society if they do not want companionship. Something is said to be wrong with the single people. It does not matter if they are content in life, and happy with their chosen paths. People expect to find a wrong person again and go through that same headaches and heartache all over again, maybe for a while they might be happy but who can predict future, who can say which relationship last forever and which will will not. What is relationship is about living the moment and when it’s over to let go just as those people came into our lives. Why is it so hard to give up? Why do people think they failed if a relationship ends? Why can’t we believe the fact that relationship ran its course and is over for good? If love is bound to happen let it happen in its time, why change a person’s personality and style to meet the demands in pursue of the finding the mate. I personally feel bad for the all the times I told people right person will come soon to their lives, wishing I did not give such hopeless advise. Being single has been great, put things in the right perspective, on most important things in my life. My priority has been set, on raising my little one to the best person that could be. I don’t want to be a single mom who just after having the baby is out chasing and looking for that right person again. I want to give my undivided attention to the little person who needs his mommy. Not just for now, forever. If you ask me I think relationship is hard work, too much bullshit. I don’t want to talk to some guy and ask away have you had lunch yet, did you just wake up, I don’t want to say I love you every time I hang up, nor do I miss intimacy. Anyways I get plenty of hugs and kisses which sometimes turn into bites from my son so for now that are more then enough to melt my heart. Also that small cute small voices that calls out to me saying mama is hundred times better then some man call me loabi. Some might say I am waiting for the lost love or for some one special to come along but no I am telling the truth when I say I am not looking for my frog.
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