Where I need to be…

This is certainly not the place I need to be, it’s like hell on earth sometimes. This is where all the bad happens, cursing, lying, cheating, stealing, harassing, back stabling, bad mouthing, revenge, list is endless. For some reason one human to another they don’t seem to want the other person to be happy and content with life. Some people it’s all about a competition, to be the best gal, best in studies, best job, and best husband and best of children. As in games unless the opponent is defeated one doesn’t stop. People trying to push people down, make them feel degraded and stressed and unhappy seems to be the goal and the winner turns out to be the people who do anything to achieve the goals. It’s pathetic, this race against each other, need to be number one. One cannot find fault with these kinds of people, if you do you rather build your own coffin and find the place you want to be buried in. Such a gloomy world, everyone is judging, planning and calculating to do better then the other. Forgetting we are here for a reason, to be faithful to God, to learn to wade off the bad and find our way to glory in the after life, certainly not here. The money, the clothes, the place you live does not matter. Essentials yes, but it’s not the most important things in life. The successful in this world believe the people who are losers in this world don’t have the right to speak or be heard, to be angry or to be happy, all they are left with is to be sad and depressed. Some people are just out to get the other people, sabotaging their chance at love and their happiness. It could be equivalent to killing someone, killing someone’s soul.

Dear Children,

Children are the greatest joy.Little people who can teach us a lot, to be nervous, to be brave and most of all to appreciate life. Sweet little darlings who can break our hearts with a tear, keeps us on our toes. Having a child is like becoming a child again.

Weekends..

Ahh the favorite time of the week is here again, the weekend. It’s so refreshing just to think about it. Gets us through the week I’m sure.It’s been some weeks when on Thursday I haven’t realized its Thursday until someone screams in office and says yaahhh so glad we don’t have to come to work tomorrow, then it dawns upon me, it’s Thursday already! Looking forward to, not waking up early, though we usually wake up late always. My little sweet pea is a late sleepers and the outcome late riser. Tomorrow don’t have to worry about a thing, get up late, and make a good breakfast fit for my King and get ready as soon as we can to head out with the grandparents to go for our breakfast. Friday is when the whole family goes for a morning car ride that ends with breakfast some where new. We like to try new places to compare which places got better breakfast buffet. Afterwards its time for a ride this last Friday ended to a swim in the artificial beach. Dad and little one had a good splashing session and darken too. The precious weekend, dad took him to a trim and his first ever motorbike ride to the artificial beach. They both went on their first ever time alone without the ever hovering mother. Usually after the morning outing its time for a quick snack and some much needed shut eye for both of us. It’s the best nap time ever, with a little snuggle bunny next to me, we both peacefully fall asleep. Of course sometimes while he sleeps it’s the time to get lunch prepared, bath taken, laundry put out. Afterwards we have our lunch, both get prepared; when he is ready he would complain to hurry me up. Sometimes brings the pants and the tops to wear for me, trying to get me dressed and out of the door as soon as he possible can. He enjoys his outing, sometimes to the park to ran around, he likes to run around the older kids that play football, he think he can keep up with them. He usually would take a few tumbles along the way and maybe throw some sand over his head. Its something he does, when he falls he takes the dirt up and throw it on to himself in the attempt to get up. Anyways back to our wonderful times together, there are times when we take endless rides in the car, and sometime take him to the park to see the bird and play on the swings and the slides. He learnt recently how to go down the swings. Totally excited to be doing that. He gets on to all the play things but he would sit still for long. Also sometimes we go the beach side to run around a little more, or run after the pigeons. Some weeks we visit our grand grandparents too. some weeks we get extra lucky when one of the family members or me decide to go for a treat, maybe ice cream or sub marines at dine-mor or milk shakes from Dhonmanik. Fully satisfied we would return home and begin on our usual routine for having dinner and reading books before royal highness decides he had enough for the day and retreat to his cot. It’s the most look forward to time of the week, maybe a little extra effort and energy is required but it’s totally worth it. Until the next weekend, when we might do something more adventurous and entertaining.